The side of you we hope to explore
A quiz for reflecting on the balance between attention to a close relationship and your own daily life.
Think of a close relationship or someone you liked in the past month. These 12 questions concern your own time, time together, and moments when you want reassurance. If you have no relationship in mind or the items do not fit, it is fine to leave without forcing an answer.
How to read results
Explore recurring scenes in your answers and one small action you can try now.
Preview types and scoring
The three indicators independently show how much your responses align with each pattern's items. They are not proportions totaling 100, judgments of another person's feelings or attachment type, or diagnoses of excessive involvement. If all are low, your responses may not clearly favor any pattern.
Each pattern has 4 questions. Responses 1, 2, 3, 4, and 5 receive 0, 0, 1, 3, and 4 points respectively for their linked pattern, and 0 for other patterns. Each pattern's sum is divided by 16 and multiplied by 100. This editorial rule gives greater weight to strong agreement; it is not a scientific diagnostic criterion.
- Keeping your own rhythm: You often keep your own schedule and time within close relationships. It can help to be equally clear about time together.
- Enjoying time together: You often want to share daily life and experiences. Ask what pace of contact and time together feels comfortable for the other person too.
- Finding reassurance through clarity: You often want clarity about reactions or plans. Ask one factual question at a time rather than guessing how someone feels.
Before you start
This original content is for entertainment and self-reflection. Results can change with recent circumstances and self-reported answers; they do not determine disorders, attachment, others’ thoughts or sexual orientation. Written and edited with AI, it is not a standardized psychological test or a professionally clinically validated scale.
Notes to read beyond the questions
- When jealousy arises, separate feelings from actions
- Personal boundaries explain what each person can offer
Frequently asked questions
Are quiz answers saved?
Answers are temporarily saved in this tab only if you opt into progress restoration. They are discarded on the next access after 24 hours or removed on completion or restart. Otherwise they stay only in memory.
Should my result always be the same?
The same answers to the same questions produce the same result. A change in your situation and answers can change it. Ties and balanced results are shown without forcing a side.
Who can use the quizzes?
The quizzes are for people aged 14 or older. We do not collect birthdates or identity documents; we only ask you to confirm the age requirement before starting.
